Evans Experientialism
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| Rabindranath Tagore(1861-1941) Nobel laureate for literature (1913), was one of modern India's greatest poets | ||||
| WOMAN - Rabindranath Tagore
WHEN male creatures indulge in their fighting
propensity to kill one another Nature
connive
at it, because, comparatively speaking,
females
are needful to her purpose, while males
are
barely necessary. Being of an economic
disposition
she does not specially care for the
hungry
broods who are quarrelsomely voracious
and
who yet contribute very little towards
the
payment of Nature's bill. Therefore
in the
insect world we witness the phenomenon
of
the females taking it upon themselves
to
keep down the male population to the
bare
limit of necessity.
But because greatly relieved of their responsibility
to Nature, the males in the human world
have
had the freedom of their occupation
and adventures.
The definition of the human being is
said
to be that he is the tool-making animal.
This tool-making is outside of Nature's
scope.
In fact, with our tool-making power we have
been able to defy Nature. The human
male
there must be balance of proportion,
must
be having the most part of his energies
free,
developed this power, and became formidable.
Thus, though in the vital department
of humanity
the ideal of stability is deeply cherished
in woman still occupies the throne
given
to her woman's nature. She is never
in love
With by Nature, man in the mental department
has created and extended his own dominion.
For this great work detachment of mind
and
freedom of movement were necessary.
Man took advantage of his comparative freedom
from the physical and emotional bondage
and
marched unencumbered towards his extension
of life's boundaries. In this he has
travelled
through the perilous path of revolutions
and ruins. Time after time his accumulations
have been swept away and the current
of progress
has disappeared at its source. Though
the
gain has been considerable yet the
waste
in comparison has been still more enormous,
especially when we consider that much
of
the wealth when vanished, has taken
away
the records with it. Through this repeated
experience of disasters man has discovered,
though he has not fully utilized, the
truth,
that in all his creations the rhythm
has
to be maintained to save them from
destruction;
that a mere unlimited augmentation
of power
does not lead to real progress, and
there
must be balance of proportion, must
be harmony
of the structure with foundation, to
indicate
a real growth in truth.
This ideal of stability is deeply cherished
in woman's nature. She is never in
love with
merely going on, shooting wanton arrows
of
curiosity into the heart of darkness.
All
her forces instinctively work to bring
things
to some shape of fullness, - for that
is
the law of life. In life's movement
though
nothing is final yet every step has
its rhythm
of completeness. Even the bud has its
ideal
of rounded perfection, so has the flower,
and also the fruit. But an unfinished
building
has not that ideal of whol eness itself.
Therefore if it goes on indefinitely
in its
growth of dimensions, it gradually
grows
out of its standard of stability. The
masculine
creations of intellectual civilization
are
towers of Babel, they dare to defy
their
foundations and therefore topple down
over
and over again. Thus human history
is growing
up over layers of ruins; it is not
a continuous
life growth. The present was is an
illustration
of this. The economic and political
organizations,
which merely represent mechanical power,
born of intellect, are apt to forget
their
centers of gravity in the foundational
world
of life. The cumulative greed of power
and
possession which can have no finality
of
completeness in itself, which has no
harmony
with the id eal of moral and spiritual
perfection,
must at last lay a violent hand upon
its
own ponderousness of material.
At the present stage of history civilization
is almost exclusively masculine, a
civilization
of power, in which woman has been thrust
aside in the shade. Therefore it has
lost
its balance and it is moving by hopping
from
war to war. Its motive forces are the
forces
of destruction, and its ceremonials
are carried
through by an appalling number of human
sacrifices.
This one-sided civilization is crashing
along
a series of catastrophes at a tremendous
speed because of its one-sidedness.
And at
last the time has arrived when woman
must
step in and impart her life rhythm
to this
reckless movement of power.
For woman's function is the passive function
of the soil, which not only helps the
tree
to grow but keeps its growth within
limits.
The tree must have life's adventure
and send
up and spread out its branches on all
sides,
but all its deeper bonds of rela tion
are
hidden and held firm in the soil and
this
helps it to live. Our civilization
must also
have its passive elements broad and
deep
and stable. It must not be mere growth
but
harmony of growth. It must not be all
tune
but it must have its time also. This
time
is not a barrier, it is what the banks
are
to the river; they guide into permanence
the current which otherwise would lose
itself
in the amorphousness of morass. It
is rhythm,
the rhythm which does not check the
world's
movements but leads them into truth
and beauty.
Woman is endowed with the passive qualities
of chastity, modesty, devotion and
power
of self sacrifice in a greater measure
than
man is. It is the passive quality in
nature
which turns its monster forces into
perfect
creations of beauty - taming the wild
elements
into the delicacy of tenderness fit
for the
service of life. This passive quality
has
given woman that large and deep placidity
which is so necessary for the healing
and
nourishing and storing of life. If
life were
all spending, then it would be like
a rocket,
going up in a flash and coming down
the next
moment in ashes. Life should be like
a lamp
where the potentiality of light is
far greater
in quantity than what appears as the
flame.
It is in the depth of passiveness in
woman's
nature that thi s potentiality of life
is
stored.
I have said elsewhere that in the woman of
the Western world a certain restlessness
is noticed which cannot be the normal
aspect
of her nature. For women who want something
special and violent in their surroundings
to keep their interests active only
prov
e that they have lost touch with their
own
true world. Apparently, numbers of
women
as well as men in the West condemn
the things
that are commonplace. They are always
hankering
after something which is out of the
common,
straining their powers to produce a
spurious
originality that merely surprises though
it may not satisfy. But such efforts
are
not a real sign of vitality. And they
must
be more injurious to women than to
men, because
women have the vital power more strongly
in them than men have. They a re the
mothers
of the race, and they have a real interest
in the things that are around them,
that
are the common things of life; if they
did
not have that, then the race would
perish.
If, by constantly using outside stimulation,
they form something like a mental drug
habit,
become addicted to a continual dram-drinking
of sensationalism, then they lose the
natural
high sensibility which they have, and
with
it the bloom of their womanhood, and
their
real power to sustain the human race
with
what it needs the most.
A man's interest in his fellow-beings becomes
real when he finds in them some special
gift
of power or usefulness, but a woman
feels
interest in her fellow -beings because
they
are living creatures, because they
are human,
not because of some particular purpose
which
they can serve, or some power which
they
possess and for which she has a special
admiration.
And because woman has this power, she
exercises
such charm over our minds; her exuberance
of vital interest is so attractive
that it
makes her speech , her laughter, her
movement,
everything graceful; for the note of
gracefulness
is in this harmony with all our surrounding
interests.
Fortunately for us, our everyday world has
the subtle and un-obstrusive beauty
of the
commonplace, and we have to depend
upon our
own sensitive minds to realize its
wonders
which are invisible because spiritual.
If
we can pierce through the exterior,
we f
ind that the world in its commonplace
aspects
is a miracle.
We realize this truth intuitively through
our power of love; and women, through
this
power, discover that the object of
their
love and sympathy, in spite of its
ragged
disguise of triviality, has infinite
worth.
When women have lost the power of interest
in things that are common, then leisure
frightens
them with its emptiness, because, their
natural
sensibilities being deadened, there
is nothing
in their surroundings to occupy their
attention.
Therefore they keep themselves frantically
busy, not in utilizing the time, merely
in
filling it up.
Our everyday world is like a reed, its true
value is not in itself, but those who
have
the power and the serenity of attention
can
hear the music which the Infinite plays
through
its very emptiness. But women form
the habit
of valuing things for themselves, then
they
may be expected furiously to storm
your mind,
to decoy your soul from her love-tryst
of
the eternal and to make you try to
smother
the voice of the Infinite by unmeaning
rattle
of ceaseless movement.
I do not mean to imply that domestic life
is the only life for a woman. I mean
that
the human world is the woman's world,
be
it domestic or be it full of the other
activities
of life, which are human activities,
and
not merely abstract efforts to organize.
Wherever there is something which is concretely
personal and human, there is woman's
world.
The domestic world is the world where
every
individual finds his worth as an individual,
therefore his value is not the market
value,
but the value of love; that is to say,
the
value that God in his infinite mercy
has
set upon all his creatures. This domestic
world has been the gift of God to woman.
She can extend her radiance of love
beyond
its boundaries on all sides, and even
leave
it to prove her woman's nature when
the call
comes to her. But this is a truth which
cannot
be ignored, that the moment she is
born in
her mother's arms, she is born in the
centre
of her own true world, the world of
human
relationships.
Woman should use her power to break through
the surface and go to the centre of
things,
where the mystery of life dwells an
eternal
source of interest. Man has not this
power
to such an extent. But woman has it,
if she
does not kill it -and therefore she
lo ves
creatures who are not lovable for their
uncommon
qualities. Man has to do his duty in
a world
of his own where he is always creating
power
and wealth and organizations of different
kinds. But God has sent woman to love
the
world, which is a world of ordinary
things
and events. She is not in the world
of the
fairy tale where the fair woman sleeps
for
ages till she is touched by the magic
wand.
In God's world women have their magic
wands
everywhere, which keep their hearts
awake,
-and these are not the golden wands
of wealth
nor the iron rods of power.
All our spiritual teachers have proclaimed
the infinite worth of the individual.
It
is the rampant materialism of the present
age which ruthlessly sacrifices individuals
to the blood- thirsty idols of organization.
When religion was materialistic, when
me
n worshipped their gods for fear of
their
malevolence, or for greed of wealth
and power,
then the ceremonies of worship were
cruel
and sacrifices were claimed without
number.
With the growth of man's spiritual
life,
our worship has become the worship
of love.
At the present stage of civilization, when
the mutilation of individuals is not
only
practised, but glorified, women are
feeling
ashamed of their own womanliness. For
God,
with his message of love, has sent
them as
guardians of individuals, and, in this
their
divine vocation, individuals are more
to
them than army and navy and parliament,
shops
and factories. Here they have their
service
in God's own temple of reality, where
love
is of more value than power .
But because men in their pride of power have
taken to deriding things that are living
and relationships that are human, a
large
number of women are screaming themselves
hoarse to prove that they are not women,
that they are true where they represent
power
and organization. In the present age
they
feel that their pride is hurt when
they are
taken as mere mothers of the race,
as the
ministers to the vital needs of its
existence,
and to its deeper spiritual necessity
of
sympathy and love.
Because men praise with pious unctuousness
the idolatry of their manufactured
images
of abstractions, women in shame are
breaking
their own true God, who is waiting
for his
worship of self-sacrifice in love.
Changes have been going on for a long time
underneath the solid crust of society
on
which woman's world has its foundation.
Of
late, with the help of science, civilization
has been growing increasingly masculine,
so that the full reality of the individual
is more and more ignored. Organization
is
encroaching upon the province of personal
relationship, and sentiment f is giving
way
to law. In some societies, too much
dominated
by masculine ideals, infanticide prevailed,
which ruthlessly kept down the female
element
of the population as low as possible.
The
same thing in another form has taken
place
in modern civilization. In its inordinate
lust for power and wealth it has robbed
woman
of the most part of her world, and
the home
is every day being crowded out by the
office.
It is taking the whole world for itself,
leaving hardly any room for woman.
It is
not merely inflicting injury but insult
upon
her.
But woman cannot be pushed back for good
into the mere region of the decorative
by
man's aggressiveness of power. For
she is
not less necessary in civilization
than man
but possibly more so. In the geological
history
of earth the periods of gigantic catac
lysms
have passed when the earth had not
attained
that mellowness of maturity which despises
all violent exhibition of force. And
the
civilization of competing commerce
and fighting
powers must also make room for that
stage
of perfection whose power lies deep
in beauty
and beneficence. Too long has ambition
been
at the helm of our history, so that
every
right of the individual has had to
be wrenched
by force from the party in power and
man
has had to invoke the help of evil
to attain
what was good for him. But such an
arrangement
cannot be lasting, but must give way
time
after time; for the seeds of violence
lie
in wait in its cracks and crevices,
and roots
of disruption spread in the dark and
cause
break down when it is least expected.
Therefore although in the present stage of
history man is asserting his masculine
supremacy
and building his civilization with
stone
blocks, ignoring the living principle
of
growth, he can not altogether crush
woman's
nature into dust or into his dead bui
lding
materials. Woman's home may have been
shattered,
but woman is not, and cannot, herself
be
killed. It is not that woman is merely
seeking
her freedom of livelihood, struggling
against
man's monopoly of business, but against
man's
monopoly of civiliza tion where he
is breaking
her heart every day and desolating
her life.
She must restore the lost social balance
by putting the full weight of the woman
into
the creation of the human world. The
monster
car of organization is creaking and
growling
alone life's highway, spreading misery
and
mutilation, for it must have speed
before
everything else in the world. Therefore
woman
must come into the bruised and maimed
world
of the individual; she must claim each
one
of them as her own, the useless and
the insignificant.
She must protect with her care all
the beautiful
flowers of sentiment from the scorching
laughter
of the science of proficiency. The
growing
impurities, born of the deprivation
of its
normal conditions imposed upon life
by the
organized power of greed, she must
sweep
away. The time has come when woman's
responsibility
has become greater than ever before,
when
her field of work has far transcended
the
domestic sphere of life. The world
with its
insulted individuals has sent its appeal
to her. These individuals must find
their
true value, raise their heads once
again
in the sun, and renew their faith in
God's
love through her love. Men have seen
the
absurdity of today's civilization,
which
is based upon nationalism,- that is
to say,
on economics and politics- and its
consequent
militarism. Men have been losing their
freedom
and their humanity in order to fit
themselves
for vast mechanical organizations.
So the
next civilization, it is hoped! ! !
! , will
be based not merely upon economical
and political
competition and exploitation but upon
world-
wide social co-operation; upon spiritual
ideals of reciprocity and not upon
economic
ideals of efficiency. And then women
will
have their -true place.
Because men have been building up vast and
monstrous organizations they have got
into,
the habit of thinking that this turning-out
power has something of the nature of
perfection
in itself. The habit is ingrained in
them,
and it is difficult for them to see
where
truth is missing in their present ideal
of
progress. But woman can bring her fresh
mind
and all her power of sympathy to this
new
task of building up a spiritual civilization,
if she will be conscious of her responsibilities.
Of course, she can be frivolous or very narrow in her outlook, and then she will miss her great mission. And just because woman has been insulated, has been living in a sort of obscurity, behind man, I think she will have her compensation in the civilization which is waiting to come. And these human beings who have been boastful of their power, and aggressive in their exploitation, who have lost faith in the real meaning of the teaching of their Master, that the meek shall inherit the earth, will be defeated in the next generation of life. It is the same thing that happened in the ancient days, in the prehistoric times, to those great monsters like the mammoths and dinosaurs. They have lost their inheritance of the earth. They had the gigantic muscles for mighty efforts but they had to give up to creatures who were much feebler in their muscles and who took up much less space with their dimensions. And in the future civilization also, the women, the feebler creatures, -feebler at least in their outer aspects,-who are less muscular, and who have been behind- hand, always left under the shadow of those huge creatures, the men,-they will have their place, and those bigger creatures will have to give way. | ||||
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