Just after the World War ended, things were
very cold, grey, dreary and tough in Britain.
Food was scarce, clothing was almost impossible
to buy, and money - especially for people
like my hard-working mother, who was bringing
a child up on her own - was extremely short.
The bottom line was - that Mum and I were
very poor, so poor that I had no shoes of
my own. On two occasions I was forced to
wear my mother's old footgear after the heels
had been ripped off. I earned the name of
'Sparky' - for as I ran along the wet pavements
of Liverpool - the metal 'sprigs' or nails
that had secured the heels - created a plenitude
of entertaining sparks!
One grey day a parcel arrived festooned with
bright, colourful, American stamps. The package
contained - Yes! You've guessed it! A pair
of new shoes! Further investigation revealed
sweets, (cookies) children's clothing, food,
and kid's books etc. The sender was a young
American woman from El Paso in Texas, USA,
and her name was Lily Chavez.
She had obtained of our address from some
Aid Organisation I think. She was a lovely
lady. The parcels continued to arrive for
some considerable time. Lily was a practising
religious Catholic, which is I suppose typical
of Mexican Americans, and I have a feeling
that her generosity and warmth sprang from
her devout feelings and Christian commitment.
I was only 10 or 11 at the time but I wrote
to her for about a year. My letters must
have seemed very childish to her (she was
16 at that time) Eventually I received an
invitation to her wedding - not that there
was ever any question of me being able to
go to Texas - for we didn't even have enough
money to pay for the bus to central Liverpool
- we used to walk! I am sure that she too
realised that I could never go to the USA
- and who wants some snotty-nosed British
ragamuffin at your wedding anyway! After
she married, the correspondence died off
- for perhaps understandable reasons.
It was not until much later in life that
I fully realised the extent of her generosity
and kindness. Eventually, when I was about
24, I wrote to the El Paso Times and asked
them to publish a letter in which I asked
her to contact me. I never got a reply, and
I don't even know if they published my missive.
I once met an American sailor whose name
was Chavez on the floating nightclub berthed
in the Liverpool docks that I owned in those
days called 'Clubship Landfall'. He told
me that the name Chavez in Spanish is just
as common as Smith is in English, and said
it would be very difficult to find her.
A short time ago, I thought that now that
I have the time to do it, I would try again,
and send a couple of letters to El Paso newspapers
and perhaps a Radio Station if possible.
I just wished to thank her appropriately
- in an articulate way - if she was still
around. So, that is what I did.
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