Evans Experientialism
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| COTTAGE IDEAS | |||||
If we had never before looked upon the earth,
but suddenly came to it man or woman grown,
set down in the midst of a summer mead, would
it not seem to us a radiant vision? The hues,
the shapes, the song and life of birds, above
all the sunlight, the breath of heaven, resting
on it; the mind would be filled with its
glory unable to grasp it, hardly believing
that such things could be mere matter ...
too beautiful to be long watched lest it
should fade away.'from: 'Wild Flowers', The
Open Air. | |||||
| Passing by the kitchen door, I heard Louisa,
the maid, chanting to a child on her knee:
Feyther stole th' Paason's sheep; A merry
Christmas we shall keep; We shall have both
mutton and beef-- _But we won't say nothing
about it_.
To rightly understand this rhyme you must
sing it with long-drawn emphasis on each
word, lengthening it into at least two syllables;
the first a sort of hexameter, the second
a pentameter of sound:
Fey-ther sto-ole th' Paa-son's sheep.
The last line is to come off more trippingly,
like an 'aside.' This old sing-song had doubtless
been handed down from the times when the
labourers really did steal sheep, a crime
happily extinct with cheap bread. Louisa
was one of the rare old sort--hard-working,
and always ready; never complaining, but
satisfied with any food there chanced to
be; sensible and sturdy; a woman who could
be thoroughly depended on. Her boxes were
full of good dresses, of a solid, unassuming
kind, such as would wear well--a perfect
wardrobe. Her purse was always well supplied
with money; she had money saved up, and she
sent money to her parents: yet her wages,
until late years, had been small. In doing
her duty to others she did good to herself.
A duchess would have been glad to have her
in her household. She had been in farmhouse
service from girlhood, and had doubtless
learned much from good housewives; farmers'
wives are the best of all teachers: and the
girls, for their own sakes, had much better
be under them than wasting so much time learning
useless knowledge at compulsory schools.
Freckles said, when he came in, He never
would enter a tawny skin,
was another of her rhymes. Freckles come
in with summer, but never appear on a dark
skin, so that the freckled should rejoice
in these signs of fairness.
Your father, the elderberry, Was not such
a gooseberry As to send in his bilberry Before
it was dewberry.
Some children are liable to an unpleasant
complaint at night; for this there is a certain
remedy. A mouse is baked in the oven to a
'scrump,' then pounded to powder, and this
powder administered. Many ladies still have
faith in this curious medicine; it reminds
one of the powdered mummy, once the great
cure of human ills. Country places have not
always got romantic names--Wapse's Farm,
for instance, and Hog's Pudding Farm. Wapse
is the provincial for wasp.
Country girls are not all so shrewd as Louisa:
we heard of two--this was some time since--who,
being in service in London, paid ten shillings
each to Madame Rachel for a bath to be made
beautiful for ever. Half a sovereign out
of their few coins! On the other hand, town
servants are well dressed and have plenty
of finery, but seldom have any reserve of
good clothing, such as Louisa possessed.
All who know the country regret the change
that has been gradually coming over the servants
and the class from which they are supplied.
'Gawd help the pore missis as gets hold of
_you_!' exclaimed a cottage woman to her
daughter, whose goings on had not been as
they should be: 'God help the poor mistress
who has to put up with you!' A remark that
would be most emphatically echoed by many
a farmer's wife and country resident. 'Doan't
you stop if her hollers at 'ee,' said another
cottage mother to her girl, just departing
for service--that is, don't stop if you don't
like it; don't stop if your mistress finds
the least fault. 'Come along home if you
don't like it.' Home to what? In this instance
it was a most wretched hovel, literally built
in a ditch; no convenience, no sanitation;
and the father a drunkard, who scarcely brought
enough money indoors to supply bread.
You would imagine that a mother in such a
position would impress upon her children
the necessity of endeavouring to do something.
For the sake of that spirit of independence
in which they seem to take so much pride,
one would suppose they would desire to see
their children able to support themselves.
But it is just the reverse; the poorer folk
are, the less they seem to care to try to
do something. 'You come home if you don't
like it;' and stay about the hovel in slatternly
idleness, tails bedraggled and torn, thin
boots out at the toes and down at the heels,
half starved on potatoes and weak tea--stay
till you fall into disgrace, and lose the
only thing you possess in the world--your
birthright, your character. Strange advice
it was for a mother to give.
Nor is the feeling confined to the slatternly
section, but often exhibited by very respectable
cottagers indeed.
'My mother never would go out to service--she
_wouldn't_ go,' said a servant to her mistress,
one day talking confidentially.
'Then what did she do?' asked the mistress,
knowing they were very poor people.
'Oh, she stopped at home.'
'But how did she live?'
'Oh, her father had to keep her. If she wouldn't
go out, of course he had to somehow.'
This mother would not let her daughter go
to one place because there was a draw-well
on the premises; and her father objected
to her going to another because the way to
the house lay down a long and lonely lane.
The girl herself, however, had sense enough
to keep in a situation; but it was distinctly
against the feeling at her home; yet they
were almost the poorest family in the place.
They were very respectable, and thought well
of in every way, belonging to the best class
of cottagers.
Unprofitable sentiments! injurious sentiments--self-destroying;
but I always maintain that sentiment is stronger
than fact, and even than self-interest. I
see clearly how foolish these feelings are,
and how they operate to the disadvantage
of those whom they influence. Yet I confess
that were I in the same position I should
be just as foolish. If I lived in a cottage
of three rooms, and earned my bread by dint
of arm and hand under the sun of summer and
the frost of winter; if I lived on hard fare,
and, most powerful of all, if I had no hope
for the future, no improvement to look forward
to, I should feel just the same. I would
rather my children shared my crust than fed
on roast beef in a stranger's hall. Perhaps
the sentiment in my case might have a different
origin, but in effect it would be similar.
I should prefer to see my family about me--the
one only pleasure I should have--the poorer
and the more unhappy, the less I should care
to part with them. This may be foolish, but
I expect it is human nature.
English folk don't 'cotton' to their poverty
at all; they don't cat humble-pie with a
relish; they resent being poor and despised.
Foreign folk seem to take to it quite naturally;
an Englishman, somehow or other, always feels
that he is wronged. He is injured; he has
not got his rights. To me it seems the most
curious thing possible that well-to-do people
should expect the poor to be delighted with
their condition. I hope they never will be;
an evil day that--if it ever came--for the
Anglo-Saxon race.
One girl prided herself very much upon belonging
to a sort of club or insurance-if she died,
her mother would receive ten pounds. Ten
pounds, ten golden sovereigns was to her
such a magnificent sum, that she really appeared
to wish herself dead, in order that it might
be received. She harped and talked and brooded
on it constantly. If she caught cold it didn't
matter, she would say, her mother would have
ten pounds. It seemed a curious reversal
of ideas, but it is a fact that poor folk
in course of time come to think less of death
than money. Another girl was describing to
her mistress how she met the carter's ghost
in the rickyard; the waggon-wheel went over
him; but he continued to haunt the old scene,
and they met him as commonly as the sparrows.
'Did you ever speak to him?'
'Oh no. You mustn't speak to them; if you
speak to them they'll fly at you.'
In winter the men were allowed to grub up
the roots of timber that had been thrown,
and take the wood home for their own use;
this kept them in fuel the winter through
without buying any. 'But they don't get _paid_
for that work.' She considered it quite a
hardship that they were not paid for taking
a present. Cottage people do look at things
in such a curious crooked light! A mother
grumbled because the vicar had not been to
see her child, who was ill. Now, she was
not a church-goer, and cared nothing for
the Church or its doctrines--that was not
it; she grumbled so terribly because 'it
was his place to come.'
A lady went to live in a village for health's
sake, and having heard so much of the poverty
of the farmer's man, and how badly his family
were off, thought that she should find plenty
who would be glad to pick up extra shillings
by doing little things for her. First she
wanted a stout boy to help to draw her Bath
chair, while the footman pushed behind, it
being a hilly country. Instead of having
to choose between half a dozen applicants,
as she expected, the difficulty was to discover
anybody who would even take such a job into
consideration. The lads did not care about
it; their fathers did not care about it;
and their mothers did not want them to do
it. At one cottage there were three lads
at home doing nothing; but the mother thought
they were too delicate for such work. In
the end a boy was found, but not for some
time. Nobody was eager for any extra shilling
to be earned in that way. The next thing
was somebody to fetch a yoke or two of spring
water daily. This man did not care for it,
and the other did not care for it; and even
one who had a small piece of ground, and
kept a donkey and water-butt on wheels for
the very purpose, shook his head. He always
fetched water for folk in the summer when
it was dry, never fetched none at that time
of year--he could not do it. After a time
a small shopkeeper managed the yoke of water
from the spring for her--_his_ boy could
carry it; the labourer's could not. He was
comparatively well-to-do, yet he was not
above an extra shilling.
This is one of the most curious traits in
the character of cottage folk--they do not
care for small sums; they do not care to
pick up sixpences. They seem to be _afraid
of obliging people_--as if to do so, even
to their own advantage, would be against
their personal honour and dignity. In London
the least trifle is snapped up immediately,
and there is a great crush and press for
permission to earn a penny, and that not
in very dignified ways. In the country it
is quite different. Large fortunes have been
made out of matches; now your true country
cottager would despise such a miserable fraction
of a penny as is represented by a match.
I heard a little girl singing--
Little drops of water, little grains of sand.
It is these that make oceans and mountains;
it is pennies that make millionaires. But
this the countryman cannot see. Not him alone
either; the dislike to little profits is
a national characteristic, well marked in
the farmer, and indeed in all classes. I,
too, must be humble, and acknowledge that
I have frequently detected the same folly
in myself, so let it not be supposed for
an instant that I set up as a censor; I do
but delineate. Work for the cottager must
be work to please him; and to please him
it must be the regular sort to which he is
accustomed, which he did beside his father
as a boy, which _his_ father did, and _his_
father before him; the same old plough or
grub-axe, the same milking, the same identical
mowing, if possible in the same field. He
does not care for any new-fangled jobs: he
does not recognise them, they have no _locus
standi_--they are not established. Yet he
is most anxious for work, and works well,
and is indeed the best labourer in the world.
But it is the national character. To understand
a nation you must go to the cottager.
The well-to-do are educated, they have travelled, if not in their ideas, they are more or less cosmopolitan. In the cottager the character stands out in the coarsest relief; in the cottager you get to 'bed-rock,' as the Americans say; there's the foundation. Character runs upwards, not downwards. It is not the nature of the aristocrat that permeates the cottager, but the nature of the cottager that permeates the aristocrat. The best of us are polished cottagers. Scratch deep enough, and you come to that; so that to know a people, go to the cottage, and not to the mansion. The labouring man cannot quickly alter his ways. Can the manufacturer? All alike try to go in the same old groove, till disaster visits their persistence. It is English human nature. | |||||