| Parapraxis
Parapraxis is a fancy name for what are commonly
called "slips of the tongue" some of which — typically if there
is a sexual connotation -
are called "Freudian slips,"
the
implication being that the mind is
really concentrated on something else,
and
that "something else" is unconsciously
revealed, particularly if the
person
is flurried or stressed
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I remember a [true] story from my youth,
where there was a weekly insurance
collector
who called to the home of a working-class
woman with a large family of kids.
He was
a kindly, pleasant man, but had an
unusually
large red protruding nose with huge
wide
flared nostrils. The kids made fun
of him
in private and when the weekly knock
came
at the door they would shout out: "Mum! It's the Nose!"
As was customary in working-class Liverpool
in those days, regular callers and
tradesmen
were invited in at Christmas time for
a cup
of tea, or a warming glass of spirits
in
accord with the seasons goodwill.
Mr Jones [the nose] called on a Thursday.
On Wednesday [and again on Thursday morning]
the mother got all the kids together and
warned them not to make any remarks nor even
look at the man's nose when he called. Even
after a rigorous admonishing she was still
petrified that one of them would forget her
caveat and pass some potentially hurtful
remark. That evening the dreaded knock came
on the door. "Please step in Mr Jones
and have a cup of tea — or perhaps a drop
of scotch?" The man came in and sat
at the table. Six pairs of little eyes gazed
at him unblinkingly. "Tea please,"
smiled Mr Jones, "I better not have
a whisky, for I've still got a lot of calls
to make."
The woman looked around at her tribe of kids,
screwing up her eyes in another visual warning.
Hands trembling she passed him the cup. "How
many spoonfuls of sugar do you take in your
nose Mr Jones," she said.
THAT is parapraxis. A minor, inadvertent
mistake, usually observed in speech or writing
or in small accidents or memory lapses, etc.
and this incident illustrates that Mr Jones'
nose and the potential hurt which would be
occasioned by some silly remark or action
by one of her kids was on her mind more than
the cup of tea.
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