WHAT LIFE SHOULD MEAN TO YOU
ALFRED ADLER
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"The truth is often a terrible weapon
of aggression. It is possible to lie, and
even to murder with the truth. " "Every
individual acts and suffers in accordance
with his peculiar teleology, which has all
the inevitability of fate, so long as he
does not understand it."
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What Life Should Mean to You
Alfred Adler (1931)
"No experience is a cause of success
or failure. We do not suffer from the shock
of our experiences--the so-called trauma--but
we make out of them just what suits our purposes."
"Behind everyone who behaves as if he
were superior to others, we can suspect a
feeling of inferiority which calls for very
special efforts of concealment. It is as
if a man feared that he was too small and
walked on his toes to make himself seem taller."
Chapter 2. Mind and Body MEN have always
debated whether the mind governs the body
or the body governs the mind. Philosophers
have joined in the controversy and taken
one position or the other; they have called
themselves idealists or materialists; they
have brought up arguments by the thousand;
and the question still seems as vexed and
unsettled as ever. Perhaps Individual Psychology
may give some help towards a solution; for
in Individual Psychology we are really confronted
with the living interactions of mind and
body. Someone's mind and body is here to
be treated; and if our treatment is wrongly
based we shall fail to help him. Our theory
must definitely grow from experience; it
must definitely stand the test of application.
We are living amongst these interactions,
and we have the strongest challenge to find
the right point of view.
The findings of Individual Psychology remove
much of the tension from this problem. It
no longer remains a plain 'either ... or'.
We see that both mind and body are expressions
of life: they are parts of the whole of life.
And we begin to understand their reciprocal
relations in that whole. The life of man
is the life of a moving being, and it would
not be sufficient for him to develop body
alone. A plant is rooted: it stays in one
place and cannot move. It would be very surprising,
therefore, to discover that a plant had a
mind; or at least a mind in any sense which
we could comprehend. If a plant could foresee
or project consequences, the faculty would
be useless to it. What advantage would it
be for the planet think:
'Here is someone coming. In a minute he will
tread on me, and I shall be dead underfoot'?
The plant would still be unable to move out
of the way.
All moving beings, however, can foresee and
reckon up the direction in which to move;
and this fact makes it necessary to postulate
that they have minds or souls.
Sense, sure, you have, Else you could not
have motion. [Hamlet, Act III, Scene 4]
This foreseeing the direction of movement
is the central principle of the mind. As
soon as we have recognised it we are in a
position to understand how the mind governs
the body it sets the goal for movements.
Merely to initiate a random movement from
moment to moment would never be enough: there
must be a goal for the strivings. Since it
is the mind's function to decide a point
towards which movement is to be made, it
occupies the governing position in life.
At the same time, the body influences the
mind; it is the body which must be moved.
The mind can move the body only in accordance
with the possibilities which the body possesses
and those which it can be trained to develop.
If, for example, the mind proposes to move
the body to the moon, it will fail unless
it discovers a technique suited to the body's
limitations.
Men are more engaged in movement than any
other beings. They do not only move in more
ways - as we can see in the complicated movements
of their hands - but they are also more capable,
by means of their movements, of moving the
environment around them. We should expect,
therefore, that the ability to foresee would
be most highly developed in the human mind,
and that men would give the clearest evidence
of a purposive striving to improve their
whole position with respect to their whole
situation.
In every human being, moreover, we can discover
behind all partial movements towards partial
goals one single inclusive movement. All
our strivings are directed towards a position
in which a feeling of security has been achieved,
a feeling that all the difficulties of life
have been overcome and that we have emerged
finally, in relation to the whole situation
around us, safe and victorious. With this
purpose in view, all movements and expressions
must be coordinated and brought into a unity:
the mind is compelled to develop as if to
achieve a final ideal goal. It is no different
with the body; the body also strives to be
a unity. It, too, develops towards an ideal
goal PR-existent in the germ. If, for example,
the skin is broken all the body is busy in
making itself whole again. The body, however,
is not merely left alone to unfold its potentialities:
the mind can help it in its development.
The value of exercise and training, and of
hygiene in general, have all been proved;
and these are all aids for the body supplied
by the mind in its striving towards the final
goal.
From the first days of life, uninterruptedly
till the end, this partnership of growth
and development continues. Body and mind
are co-operating as indivisible parts of
one whole. The mind is like a motor, dragging
with it all the potentialities which it can
discover in the body, helping to bring the
body into a position of safety and superiority
to all difficulties. In every movement of
the body, in every expression and symptom,
we can see the impress of the mind's purpose.
A man moves. There is meaning in his movement.
He moves his eyes, his tongue, the muscles
of his face. His face has an expression,
a meaning. It is mind that puts meaning there.
Now we can begin to see what psychology,
or the science of mind, really deals with.
The province of psychology is to explore
the meaning involved in all the expressions
of an individual, to find the key to his
goal, and to compare it with the goals of
others.
In striving for the final goal of security,
the mind is always faced with the necessity
of making the goal concrete; of calculating
'security lies in this particular point;
it is reached by going in this particular
direction'. Here, of course, the chance of
a mistake occurs; but without a quite definite
goal and direction-setting there could be
no movement at all. If I lift my hand, there
must be a goal for the movement already in
my mind. The direction which the mind chooses
may be, in reality, disastrous; but it is
chosen because the mind conceives it mistakenly
as the most advantageous. All psychological
mistakes are thus mistakes in choosing the
direction of movement. The goal of security
is common to all human beings; but some of
them mistake the direction in which security
lies and their concrete movements lead them
astray.
If we see an expression or symptom and fail
to recognise the meaning behind it, the best
way to understand it is, first of all, to
reduce it in outline to a bare movement.
Let us take, for example, the expression
of stealing. To steal is to remove property
from another person to oneself. Let us now
examine the goal of the movement: the goal
is to enrich oneself, and to feel more secure
by possessing more. The point at which the
movement sets out is therefore a feeling
of being poor and deprived. The next step
is to find out in what circumstances the
individual is placed and in what conditions
he feels deprived. Finally we can see whether
he is taking the right way to change these
circumstances and overcome his feeling of
being deprived; whether the movement is in
the right direction, or whether he has mistaken
the method of securing what he desires. We
need not criticise his final goal; but we
may be able to point out that he has chosen
a mistaken way in making it concrete.
The changes which the human race has made
in its environment we call our culture; and
our culture is the result of all the movements
which the minds of men have initiated for
their bodies. Our work is inspired by our
minds. The development of our bodies is directed
and aided by our minds. In the end we shall
not be able to find a single human expression
which is not filled with the purposiveness
of the mind. It is by no means desirable,
however, that the mind should overstress
its own part. If we are to overcome difficulties,
bodily fitness is necessary. The mind is
engaged, therefore, in governing the environment
in such a way that the body can be defended
- so that it can be protected from sickness,
disease and death, from damage, accidents
and failures of function. This is the purpose
served by our ability to feel pleasure and
pain, to create phantasies and to identify
ourselves with good and bad situations. The
feelings put the body in shape to meet a
situation with a definite type of response.
Phantasies and identifications are methods
of foreseeing; but they are also more: they
stir up the feelings in accordance with which
the body will act. In this way the feelings
of an individual bear the impress of the
meaning he gives to life and of the goal
he has set for his strivings. To a great
extent, though they rule his body, they do
not depend on his body: they will always
depend primarily on his goal and his consequent
style of life.
Clearly enough, it is not the style of life
alone that governs an individual. His attitudes
do not create his symptoms without further
help. For action they must be reinforced
by feelings. What is new in the outlook of
Individual Psychology is our observation
that the feelings are never in contradiction
to the style of life. Where there is a goal,
the feelings always to its attainment. We
are no longer, therefore, in the realm of
physiology or biology; the rise of feelings
cannot be explained by chemical theory and
cannot be predicted by chemical examination.
In Individual Psychology we must presuppose
the physiological processes, but we are more
interested in the psychological goal. It
is not so much our concern that anxiety influences
the sympathetic and parasympathetic nerves.
We look, rather, for the purpose and end
of anxiety.
With this approach anxiety cannot be taken
as rising from the suppression of sexuality,
or as being left behind as the result of
disastrous birth-experiences. Such explanations
are beside the mark. We know that a child
who is accustomed to be accompanied, helped
and supported by its Mother may find anxiety
whatever its source - a very efficient weapon
for controlling its Mother. We are not satisfied
with a physical description of anger; our
experience has shown us that anger is a device
to dominate a person or a situation. We can
take it for granted that every bodily and
mental expression must be based on inherited
material; but our attention is directed to
the use which is made of this material in
striving to achieve a definite goal. This,
it seems, is the only real psychological
approach.
In every individual we see that feelings
have grown and developed in the direction
and to the degree which were essential to
the attainment of his goal. His anxiety or
courage, cheerfulness or sadness, have always
agreed with his style of life: their proportionate
strength and dominance has been exactly what
we could expect. A man who accomplishes his
goal of superiority by sadness cannot be
gay and satisfied with his accomplishments.
He can only be happy when he is miserable.
We can notice also that feelings appear and
disappear at need. A patient suffering from
agoraphobia loses the feeling of anxiety
when he is at home or when he is dominating
another person. All neurotic patients exclude
every part of life in which they do not feel
strong enough to be the conqueror.
The emotional tone is as fixed as the style
of life. The coward, for example, is always
a coward, even though he is arrogant with
weaker people or seems courageous when he
is shielded by others. He may fix three locks
on his door, protect himself with police
dogs and mantraps and insist that he is full
of courage. Nobody will be able to prove
his feeling of anxiety; but the cowardice
of his character is shown sufficiently by
the trouble he has taken to protect himself.
The realm of sexuality and love gives a similar
testimony. The feelings belonging to sex
always appear when an individual desires
to approach his sexual goal. By concentration,
he tends to exclude conflicting tasks and
incompatible interests; and thus he evokes
the appropriate feelings and functions. The
lack of these feelings and functions - as
in impotence, premature ejaculation, perversion
and frigidity - is established by refusing
to exclude inappropriate tasks and interests.
Such abnormalities are always induced by
a mistaken goal of superiority and a mistaken
style of life. We always find in such cases
a tendency to expect consideration rather
than to give it, a lack of social feeling,
and a failure in courage and optimistic activity.
A patient of mine, a second child, suffered
very profoundly from inescapable feelings
of guilt. Both his father and his elder brother
laid great emphasis on honesty. When the
boy was seven years old he told his teacher
in school that he had done a piece of homework
by himself, although, as a matter of fact,
his brother had done it for him. The boy
concealed his guilty feelings for three years.
At last he went to see the teacher and confessed
his awful lie. The teacher merely laughed
at him. Next he went to his Father in tears
and confessed a second time. This time he
was more successful. The Father was proud
of his boy's love of truth; he praised and
consoled him. In spite of the fact that his
Father had absolved him, the boy continued
to be depressed. We can hardly avoid the
conclusion that this boy was occupied in
proving his great integrity and scrupulousness
by accusing himself so bitterly for such
a trifle. The high moral atmosphere of his
home gave him the impulse to excel in integrity.
He felt inferior to his elder brother in
school work and social attractiveness; and
he tried to achieve superiority by a sideline
of his own.
Later in life he suffered from other self-reproaches.
He masturbated and was never completely free
from cheating in his studies. His feelings
of guilt always increased before he took
an examination. As he went on he collected
difficulties of this sort. By means of his
sensitive conscience he was much more burdened
than his brother; and thus he had an excuse
prepared for all failures to equal him. When
he left the university, he planned to do
technical work; but his compulsory feelings
of guilt grew so poignant he prayed through
the whole day that God would forgive him.
He was thus left without time for working.
By now his condition was so bad that he was
sent to an asylum, and there he was considered
as incurable. After a time, however, he improved
and left the asylum, but asked permission
to be readmitted if he should suffer a relapse.
He changed his occupation and studied the
history of art. The time came around for
his examinations. He went to church on a
public holiday. He threw himself down before
the great crowd and cried out, 'I am the
greatest sinner of all men.' In this way
again he succeeded in drawing attention to
his sensitive conscience.
After another period in the asylum he returned
home. One day he came down to lunch naked.
He was a well-built man and on this point
he could compete well with his brother and
with other people.
His feelings of guilt were means to make
him appear more honeshan others and in this
way he was struggling to achieve superiority.
His struggles, however, were directed towards
the useless side of life. His escape from
examinations and occupational work gives
a sign of cowardice and a heightened feeling
of inadequacy; and his whole neurosis was
a purposive exclusion of every activity in
which he feared a defeat. The same striving
for superiority by shabby means is evident
in his prostration in church and his sensational
entrance into the dining-room. His style
of life demanded them and the feelings he
induced were entirely appropriate.
It is, as we have already seen, in the first
four or five years of life that the individual
is establishing the unity of his mind and
constructing the relations between mind and
body. He is taking his hereditary material
and the impressions he receives from the
environment and is adapting them to his pursuit
of superiority. By the end of the fifth year
his personality has crystallised. The meaning
he gives to life, the goal he pursues, his
style of approach, and his emotional disposition
are all fixed. They can be changed later;
but they can be changed only if he becomes
free from the mistake involved in his childhood
crystallisation. just as all his previous
expressions were coherent with his interpretation
of life, so now, if he is able to correct
the mistake, his new expressions will be
coherent with his new interpretation.
It is by means of his organs that an individual
comes into touch with his environment and
receives impressions from it. We can see,
therefore, from the way he is training his
body, the kind of impression he is prepared
to receive from his environment and the use
he is trying to make of his experience. If
we notice the way he looks and listens and
what it is that attracts his attention, we
have learned much about him. This is the
reason why postures have such an importance;
they show us the training of the organs and
the use which is being made of them to select
impressions. Postures are always conditioned
by meanings.
Now we can add to our definition of psychology.
Psychology is the understanding of an individual's
attitude towards the impressions of his body.
We can also begin to see how the great differences
between human minds come to arise. A body
which is ill-suited to the environment and
has difficulty in fulfilling the demands
of the environment will usually be felt by
the mind as a burden. For this reason children
who have suffered from imperfect organs meet
with greater hindrances than usual for their
mental development. It is harder for their
minds to influence, move and govern their
bodies towards a position of superiority.
A greater effort of mind is needed, and mental
concentration must be higher than with others
if they are to secure the same object. So
the mind becomes overburdened and they become
self-centred and egoistic. When a child is
always occupied with the imperfection of
its organs and the difficulties of movement,
it has no attention to spare for what is
outside itself. It finds neither the time
nor the freedom to interest itself in others,
and in consequence grows up with a lesser
degree of social feeling and ability to co-operate.
Imperfect organs offer many handicaps but
these handicaps are by no means an inescapable
fate. If the mind is active on its own part
and trains hard to overcome the difficulties,
the individual may very well succeed in being
as successful as those who were originally
less burdened. Indeed, children with imperfect
organs very often accomplish, in spite of
their obstacles, more than children who start
with more normal instruments. The handicap
was a stimulus to go further ahead. A boy,
for example, may suffer unusual stress through
the imperfection of his eyes. He is more
occupied in trying to see; he gives more
attention to the visible world; he is more
interested in distinguishing colours and
forms. In the end, he comes to have a much
greater experience of the visible world than
children who never needed to struggle or
to pay attention to small distinctions. Thus
an imperfect organ can turn out to be the
source of great advantages; but only if the
mind has found the right echnique for overcoming
difficulties. Among painters and poets a
great proportion are known to have suffered
from imperfections of sight. These imperfections
have been governed by well-trained minds;
and finally their possessors could use their
eyes to more purpose than others who were
more nearly normal. The same kind of compensation
can be seen, perhaps more easily, among left-handed
children who have not been recognised as
left-handed. At home, or in the beginning
of their school-days, they were trained to
use their imperfect right hands. Thus they
were really not so well equipped for writing,
drawing or handicraft. We might expect, if
the mind can be used to overcome such difficulties,
that often this imperfect right hand would
develop a high degree of artistry. This is
precisely what happens. In many instances
left-handed children learn to have better
handwriting than others, more talent for
drawing and painting, or more skin in craftsmanship.
By finding the right technique, by interest,
training and exercise, they have turned disadvantage
into advantage.
Only a child who desires to contribute to
the whole, whose interest is not centred
in himself, can train successfully to compensate
for defects. If children desire only to rid
themselves of difficulties, they will continue
backward. They can keep up their courage
only of they have a purpose in view for their
efforts and if the achievement of this purpose
is more important to them than the obstacles
which stand in the way. It is a question
of where their interest and attention is
directed. If they are striving towards an
object external to themselves, they will
quite naturally train and equip themselves
to achieve it. Difficulties win represent
no more than positions which are to be conquered
on their way to success. If, on the other
hand, their interest is in stressing their
own drawbacks or in fighting these drawbacks
with no purpose except to be free from them,
they will be able to make no real progress.
A clumsy right hand cannot be trained into
a skillful right hand by taking thought,
by wishing that it were less clumsy, or even
by avoiding clumsiness. It can become s@
only by exercise in practical achievements;
and the incentive to the achievement must
be more deeply felhan the discouragement
at the hitherto existent clumsiness. If a
child is to draw together his powers and
overcome his difficulties, there must be
a goal for his movements outside of himself;
a goal based on interest in reality, interest
in others, and interest in co-operation.
A good example of hereditary capital and
the use to which it may be turned was given
me by my investigations into families which
suffered from inferiority of the kidney tract.
Very often children in these families suffered
from enuresis. The organ inferiority is real;
it can be shown in the kidney or the bladder
or in the existence of a spina bifida; and
often a corresponding imperfection of the
lumbar segment can be suspected from a naevus
or birth-mole on the skin in that area. The
organ inferiority, however, by no means accounts
sufficiently for the enuresis. The child
is not under the compulsion of his organs;
and he uses them in his own way. Some children,
for example, will wet the bed at night and
never during the day. Sometimes the habit
will disappear suddenly, upon a change in
the environment or in the attitude of the
parents. Enuresis can be overcome, except
among feeble-minded children, ff the child
ceases to use the imperfection of his organs
for a mistaken purpose.
Mainly, however, children who suffer from
enuresis are being stimulated not to overcome
it but to continue it. A skilful Mother can
give the right training; but if the Mother
is not skilful an unnecessary weakness persists.
Often in families which suffer from kidney
troubles or bladder troubles everything to
do with urinating is over-stressed. Mothers
will then mistakenly try very hard to stop
the enuresis. If the child notices how much
value is placed on this point, he will very
probably resist. It will give him a very
good opportunity to assert his opposition
to this kind of education. If a child resists
the treatment which his parents give him,
he will always find his way to attack them
at their point of greatest weakness. A very
well-known sociologist in Germany has discovered
that a surprising proportion of criminals
spring from families which are occupied in
the suppression of crime; from the families
of judges, policemen, or prison warders.
Often the children of teachers are obstinately
backward. In my own experience I have often
found this true; and I have found also a
surprising number of neurotic children among
the children of doctors and of delinquent
children among the children of ministers
of religion. In a similar way, the children
whose parents over-stress urination have
a very clear way open for them to show that
they have wills of their own.
Enuresis can also provide us with a good
example of how dreams are used to stir up
emotions appropriate to the actions we intend.
Often children who wet the bed dream that
they have got out of bed and gone to the
toilet. In this way they have excused themselves;
now they are perfectly right to wet the bed.
The purpose which enuresis serves is generally
to attract notice, to subordinate others,
to occupy their attention in the night-time
as well as the day. Sometimes it is to antagonise
them; the habit is a declaration of enmity.
From every angle, we can see that enuresis
is really a creative expression; the child
is speaking with his bladder instead of his
mouth. The organic imperfection does no more
than offer him the means for the expression
of his opinion.
Children who express themselves in this way
are always suffering from a tension. Generally
they belong to the class of spoiled children
who have lost their position of being the
unique centre of attention. Another child
has been born, perhaps, and they find it
more difficult to secure the undivided attention
of their mothers. Enuresis thus represents
a movement to come in closer contact with
the Mother, even by unpleasant means. It
says, in effect, 'I am not so far advanced
as you think: I must still be watched'. In
different circumstances, or with a different
organ imperfection, they would have chosen
other means. They might have used sound,
for example, to establish the connection,
in which case they would have been restless
and cried during the night. Some children
walk in their sleep, have nightmares, fall
out of bed, or become thirsty and call for
water. The psychological background for these
expressions is similar. The choice of symptom
depends in part on the organic situation
and in part on the attitude of the environment.
Such cases show very well the influence which
the mind exerts over the body. In all probability
the mind does not only affect the choice
of a particular bodily symptom; it is governing
and influencing the whole building-up of
the body. We have no direct proof of this
hypothesis; and it is difficult to see how
a proof could ever be established. The evidence,
however, seems clear enough. If a boy is
timid, his timidity is reflected in his whole
development. He will not care for physical
achievements; or, rather, he will not think
of them as possible for himself. In consequence,
it will not occur to him to train his muscles
in an efficient way, and he will exclude
all the impressions from outside that would
ordinarily be a stimulus to muscular development.
Other children, who allow themselves to be
influenced and interested in the training
of their muscles, will go farther ahead in
physical fitness; he, because his interest
is blocked, will remain behind.
From such consideration we can fairly conclude
that the whole form and development of the
body is affected by the mind and reflects
the errors or deficiencies of the mind. We
can often observe bodily expressions which
are plainly the end results of mental failings,
where the right way to compensate for a difficulty
has not been discovered. We may be sure,
for example, that the endocrine glands themselves
can be influenced in the first four or five
years of life. Imperfect glands never have
a compulsive influence on conduct; on the
other hand, they are being continuously affected
by the whole environment, by the direction
in which the child seeks to receive impressions,
and by the creative activity of its mind
in this interesting situation.
Another piece of evidence would perhaps be
more readily understood and accepted, since
it is more familiar and leads towards a temporary
expression, not towards a fixed disposition
of the body. To a certain degree every emotion
finds some bodily expression. The individual
will show his emotion in some visible form;
perhaps in his posture and attitude, perhaps
in his face, perhaps in the trembling of
his legs and knees. Similar changes could
be found in the organs themselves. If he
flushes or turns pale, for example, the circulation
of the blood is affected. In anger, anxiety,
sorrow or any other emotion, the body always
speaks; and each individual's body speaks
in a language of its own. When one man is
in a situation in which he is afraid, he
trembles; the hair of another will stand
on end; a third will have palpitations of
the heart. Still others will sweat or choke,
speak in a hoarse voice, or shrink physically
and cower away. Sometimes the tonus of the
body is affected, the appetite lost, or vomiting
induced. With some it is the bladder which
is mainly irritated by such emotions, with
others the sexual organs. Many children feel
stimulated in the sexual organs when taking
examinations; and it is well known that criminals
will frequently go to a house of prostitution,
or to their sweethearts, after they have
committed a crime. In the realm of science
we find psychologists who claim that sex
and anxiety go together and psychologists
who claim that they have not the remotest
connection. Their point of view depends on
their personal experience; with some there
is a connection, with others not.
All of these responses belong to different
types of individuals. They could probably
be discovered to be to some extent hereditary,
and physical expressions of this kind will
often give us hints of the weaknesses and
peculiarities of the family tree. Other members
of the family may make a very similar bodily
response. What is most interesting here,
however, is to see how, by means of the emotions,
the mind is able to activate the physical
conditions. The emotions and their physical
expressions tell us how the mind is acting
and reacting in a situation which it interprets
as favourable or unfavourable. In an outburst
of temper, for example, the individual has
wished to overcome his imperfections as quickly
as possible. The best way has seemed to be
to hit, accuse or attack another individual.
The anger, in its turn, influences the organs:
mobilises them for action or lays an additional
stress on them. Some people when they are
angry have stomach trouble at the same time,
or grow red in the face. Their circulation
is altered to such a degree that a headache
ensues. We shall generally find unadmitted
rage or humiliation behind attacks of migraine,
or habitual headaches; and with some people
anger results in trigeminal neuralgia or
fits of an epileptic nature.
The means by which the body is influenced
have never been completely explored, and
we shall probably never have a full account
of them. A mental tension affects both the
voluntary system and the vegetative nerve
system. Where there is tension, there is
action in the voluntary system. The individual
drums on the table, plucks at his lips or
tears up pieces of paper. If he is tense,
he has to move in some way. Chewing a pencil
or a cigar gives him an outlet for his tension.
These movements show us that he feels himself
too much confronted by some situation. It
is the same whether he blushes when he is
among strangers, begins to tremble or exhibits
a tic; they are all results of tension. By
means of the vegetative system, the tension
is communicated to the whole body; and so,
with every emotion, the whole body is itself
in a tension. The manifestations of this
tension, however, are not as clear at every
point; and we speak of symptoms only in those
points where the results are discoverable.,
If we examine more closely we shall find
that every part of the body is involved in
an emotional expression; and that these physical
expressions are the consequences of the action
of the mind and the body. It is always necessary
to look for these reciprocal actions of the
mind on the body, and of the body on the
mind, since both of them are parts of the
whole with which we are concerned.
We may reasonably conclude from such evidence
that a style of life and a corresponding
emotional disposition exert a continuous
influence on the development of the body.
If it is true that a child crystallises its
style of life very early, we should be able
to discover., if we are experienced enough,
the resulting physical expressions in later
life. A courageous individual will show the
effects of his attitude in his physique.
His body will be differently built up; the
tonus of his muscles will be stronger, the
carriage of his body will be firmer. Posture
probably influences very considerably the
development of the body and perhaps accounts
in part for the better tonus of the muscles.
The expression of the face is different in
the courageous individual, and, in the end,
the whole cast of features. Even the conformation
of the skull may be affected.
Today it would be difficult to deny that
the mind can influence the brain. Pathology
has shown cases where an individual has lost
the ability to read or write through a lesion
in the left hemisphere, but has been able
to recover this ability by training other
parts of the brain. It often happens that
an individual has an apoplectic stroke and
there is no possibility of repairing the
damaged part of the brain; and yet other
parts of the brain compensate, restore the
functions of the organs and so complete once
more the brain's faculties. This fact is
especially important in helping us to show
the possibilities of the educational application
of Individual Psychology. If the mind can
exercise such an influence over the brain;
if the brain is no more than the tool of
the mind - its most important tool, but still
only its tool - then we can find ways to
develop and improve this tool. No one born
with a certain standard of brain need remain
inescapably bound by it all his life: methods
may be found to make the brain better fitted
for life.
A mind which has fixed its goal in a mistaken
direction - which ' for example, is not developing
the ability to co-operate - will fail to
exercise a helpful influence on the growth
of the brain. For this reason we find that
many children who lack the ability to co-operate
show, in later life, that they have not developed
their intelligence, their ability to understand.
Since the whole bearing of an adult reveals
the influence of the style of life which
he built up in the first four or five years,
since we can see visibly before us the results
of his scheme of apperception and the meaning
which he has given to life, we can discover
the blocks in co-operation from which he
is suffering, and help to correct his failures.
Already in Individual Psychology we have
the first steps towards this science.
Many authors have pointed out a constant
relationship between the expressions of the
mind and those of the body. None of them,
it seems, has attempted to discover the bridge
between the two. Kretschmer, for example,
has described how, in the build of the body,
we can discover a correspondence with a certain
type of mind. He is thus able to distinguish
types into which he fits a great proportion
of mankind. There are, for instance, the
pyknoids, round-faced individuals with short
noses and a tendency to corpulence; the men
of whom Julius Caesar speaks:
'Let me have men about me that are fat;
Sleek-headed men and such as sleep o' nights."
With such a physique Kretschmer correlates
specific mental characteristics; but his
work does not make clear the reasons for
this correlation. In our own conditions,
individuals of this physique do not appear
as suffering from organ imperfection; their
bodies are well suited to our culture. Physically
they feel equal to others. They have confidence
in their own strength. They are not tense
and, if they wished to fight, they would
feel capable of fighting. They have no need,
however, to look on others as their enemies
or to struggle with life as if it were hostile.
One school of psychology would call them
extroverts, but would offer no explanation.
We should expected to be extroverts, because
they suffer no trouble from their bodies.
A contrasting type which Kretschmer distinguishes
is the schizoid, either infantile or unusually
tall, long-nosed, with an egg-shaped head.
These he believes to be reserved and introspective;
and if they suffer from mental disturbances,
they become schizophrenic. They are of the
other type of which Caesar speaks:
"'Yond Cassius has a lean and hungry
look; He thinks too much; such men are dangerous."
Perhaps these individuals suffered from imperfect
organs and grew up more self-interested,
more pessimistic and more 'introverted'.
Perhaps they made more claims for help, and
when they found that they were not sufficiently
considered, became bitter and suspicious.
We can find, however, as Kretschmer admits,
many mixed types, and even pyknoid types
who have developed with the mental characteristics
attributed to schizoids. We could understand
this if their circumstances had burdened
them in another way, and they had become
timid and discouraged. We could probably,
by systematic discouragement, make any child
into a person who behaved like a schizoid.
If we had much experience behind us, we could
recognise from all the partial expressions
of an individual the degree of his ability
to co-operate. Without knowing it, people
have always been looking for such signs.
The necessity for co-operation is always
pressing us; and hints have already been
discovered, not scientifically but intuitively,
to show us how to orient ourselves better
in this chaotic life. In the same way we
can see that before all the great adjustments
of history the mind of the people had already
recognised the necessity for adjustment and
was striving to achieve it. So long as the
striving is only instinctive, mistakes can
easily be made. People have always disliked
individuals who had very noticeable physical
peculiarities, disfigured persons or hunchbacks.
Without knowing it, they were judging them
as less fitted for co-operation. This was
a great mistake, but their judgment was probably
founded on experience. The way had not yet
been found to increase the degree of co-operation
in individuals who suffered from these peculiarities;
their drawbacks were therefore over-emphasised,
and they became the victims of popular superstition.
Let us now summarise our position. In the
first four or five years of life the child
unifies its mental strivings and establishes
the root relationships between its mind and
its body. A fixed style of life is adopted,
with a corresponding emotional and physical
habitus. Its development includes a larger
or smaller degree of co-operation; and it
is from this degree of co-operation that
we learn to judge and understand the individual.
In all failures the highest common measure
is a small degree of ability to cooperate.
We can now give a still further definition
of psychology: it is the understanding of
deficiencies in co-operation. Since the mind
is a unity and the same style of life runs
through all its expressions, all of an individual's
emotions and thoughts must be consonant with
his style of life. If we see emotions that
apparently cause difficulties and run counter
to the individual's own welfare, it is completely
useless to begin by trying to change these
emotions. They are the right expression of
the individual's style of life, and they
can be uprooted only if he changes his style
of life.
Here Individual Psychology gives us a special
hint for our educational and therapeutic
outlook. We must never treat a symptom or
a single expression: we must discover the
mistake made in the whole style of life,
in the way the mind has interpreted its experiences,
in the meaning it has given to life, and
in the actions with which it has answered
the impressions received from the body and
from the environment. This is the real task
of psychology. It is not properly to be called
psychology if we stick pins into a child
and see how far it jumps, or tickle it and
see how loud it laughs. These enterprises,
so common among modem psychologists, may
in fact tell us something of an individual's
psychology; but only in so far as they give
evidence of a fixed and particular style
of life. Styles of life are the proper subject-matter
of psychology and the material for investigation;
and schools which take any other subject-matter
are occupied, in the main part, with physiology
or biology. This holds true of those who
investigate stimuli and reactions; those
who attempt to trace the effect of a trauma
or shocking experience; and those who examine
inherited abilities and look to see how they
unfold themselves. In Individual Psychology,
however, we are considering the psyche itself,
the unified mind; we are examining the meaning
which individuals give to the world and to
themselves, their goals, the direction of
their strivings, and the approaches they
make to the problems of life. The best key
which we so far possess for understanding
psychological differences is given by examining
the degree of ability to co-operate.
What Life Should mean to You (1933) purl. Unwin Books, 1932. Chapter 2.
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